My favorite position is the Flying Lotus. Mmmm... sweet lotus action.
When you put your grandmother in that nursing home, you really don't expect her to have much of a life anymore. It's just a waiting game until the final curtain like 3.5 waiting for 4e.... I kind of figured that a long while ago. Did you actually think they would continue support for the old stuff? At best, 3.5 will get a little back corner of the forums like previous out of print material does now. Soon they will wipe away the old trash, so there is room for the new.