I enjoy good story line and role play that is at the table. I do not dress up or take anything too far. I'm good at strategy and like using the battle map. If you legitimately have to think about whether my 18str fighter can hold his greatsword then I'm afraid there may be some conflict in that campaign( I don't like stupid arguments). I don't cheat and think that people who do should be expelled immediately.
I've been playing D&D for about 10 years off and on. The hardest thing I have found about RPG's is finding people who will not flake out. I don't need rides to the game as I have my own car.