I am currently running the Pathfinder Kingmaker AP for four players. We play most every Friday from 6p-12a. We focus a lot on roleplaying and character development but love to hack and slash as well. This campaign has been going for over four years now. As a majority, we don't number crunch and no one plays "the uber leet power gamed character". Instead we tend to build personalities with stats.
We have four players at our table, but I am entertaining the idea of having one more if it's the right person. My fiancée plays with us and can get drowned out by the guy talk at the table. So ideally our fifth would be a female to help balance the game.
We are a pretty patient group and wouldn't mind someone new to pathfinder.
I live and play with my fiancé. My current campaign includes really close friends. Don't worry I'm just as likely to kill them as any other new player. I play no favorites.